Jay Hopson

How To Feel Attractive, Young and Sexy



Posted: Monday, September 21, 2009

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We can lead a dramatically more productive and fascinating life if we have confidence in our appearance. Very little gets accomplished by those who are unsure of themselves. Few of us will even try to approach the opposite sex if we believe we'll fail, and if we do try with that belief in our minds... we usually will. If you've been cooped up in your own skin for a number of years, there's a good chance you've become too hard on yourself mentally to have any sort of confidence in your appearance at all. The human mind is, unfortunately, programmed to focus on things about ourselves that tend to be counterproductive when it comes to self confidence. But, be of good cheer, feeling attractive, young and sexy is 99% a matter of how you think about yourself .

Taking control of our minds and reversing these negative thoughts about our appearance is the first step to feeling attractive again. Take an honest look at yourself. Chances are there are many things about you that are attractive. Start deliberately focusing on those things for a change. At the same time it doesn't hurt to note the things about yourself that you can change. If you could stand to lose some weight, then put that on your agenda. I seem to have a skin condition that causes flaking along my eyebrows. I have learned to manage this with the proper shampoos. Fix what you can, but then start allowing yourself to be at peace with those details that you are unable to change.

If we see ourselves as looking old, we can be certain that we appear old. It shows in our posture and the way we hold ourselves. Start rebuilding an image of yourself looking and feeling young again. You may not be able to reverse the aging process, but you can start focusing on the improvements that age might have gifted you with. Remember the positive aspects of aging. You are wiser now than you were ten years ago, and you've gained valuable experience in life which counts for a great deal. If you're over 50, then you'll know by now that 90% of the opposite sex is attracted by personality more than by appearance anyway, so utilize your personality.

Focusing on the positive aspects of your appearance, rather than the negative, will create a new image of yourself in your mind, and that image will soon be what you portray to the world.

Jay Hopson loves helping people change their lives.  Teaching a man to fish, rather than giving him the fish has become a way of life for him. For targeted motivational thoughts, ideas and stories, visit: .InboxMotivations.com

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